tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post3818909802747200212..comments2023-08-17T11:04:19.748-04:00Comments on submission & metaphor: How can I not?oatmeal girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-3166694069663494642009-05-09T11:11:00.000-04:002009-05-09T11:11:00.000-04:00this is wonderful o.g. i've been away from home a...this is wonderful o.g. i've been away from home and my computer and had a lot of catching up to do. <br /><br />great way to spend a saturday morning, catching up on your beautiful writings.baby girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13606487892168910110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-58454102978388193232009-05-06T22:16:00.000-04:002009-05-06T22:16:00.000-04:00Vesta - I admit it. I have more than once had that...Vesta - I admit it. I have more than once had that thought about him myself. The man is a narcissist, he says so himself and fits the psych definition pretty well. On the other hand... well, you know...<br /><br />mamacrow - the good thing about his shoving it at me was that it freed me to deal with it rather than push it away. but I do have to deal with it, and not let it get out of hand, not lses myself in delusion. I can be hurt very easily.<br /><br />And no, I haven't forgotten the other needs. They are very very real. Perhaps he is grooming me into someone whom a man or woman might see and say yes, I want to cuddle up with her and the Sunday NY Times after giving her her morning caning... he is certainly trying to teach me to respect myself and have faith in myself... except when I disappoint him and want to curl up in a hole and hide. (Another story...)oatmeal girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-23584681136903725512009-05-06T16:25:00.000-04:002009-05-06T16:25:00.000-04:00well I'm honoured I have a whole post in response ...well I'm honoured I have a whole post in response to a comment!<br /><br />I managed to totally miss you commenting that he said he knew you were in love with him... (PHEW what a sentence!)<br /><br />still, I didn't mean to imply it was a bad thing.. it sounds very good, you sound great on it...<br />You're certainly writing VERY well on it!<br /><br />but I'm not forgetting your quiet, hanging out, reading the paper together needs... and am hoping you find a way to get those met too (((HUGS)))mamacrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484565827023574347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-18424359806633777212009-05-06T00:22:00.000-04:002009-05-06T00:22:00.000-04:00When I read this, my mind went straight to Carly S...When I read this, my mind went straight to Carly Simon:<br /><br />"You're so vain, I bet this song is about you..."<br /><br />...giggles...Vestahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03677044322646962128noreply@blogger.com