tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post7599021118633580972..comments2023-08-17T11:04:19.748-04:00Comments on submission & metaphor: I serve. He pays.oatmeal girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-30541431215177063012011-05-24T16:53:06.224-04:002011-05-24T16:53:06.224-04:00there's absolutely nothing wrong with acceptin...there's absolutely nothing wrong with accepting someone's generosity.<br />I guess I am a traditionalist who believes the guy pays, in any event.<br /><br />MickMick Collinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12319002921976293295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-33098386354120752792011-05-24T02:08:26.520-04:002011-05-24T02:08:26.520-04:00For me it's a kind of "damned if I do and...For me it's a kind of "damned if I do and damned if I don't" kind of situation. I'm prone to feelings of resentment if he accepts my insistence on paying and guilt if he won't take half. I'm working on finding a happy balance. I like your mother's solution.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12796515657265727452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-21649042369967003202011-05-22T17:49:14.963-04:002011-05-22T17:49:14.963-04:00Good for you!
I'm in a similar position and h...Good for you! <br />I'm in a similar position and have no trouble with the fact that Sir pays for almost everything.<br />He never makes me feel cheapened by that fact.<br /><br />I really really hope you can have the night together this year!nbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12817508431335142670noreply@blogger.com