tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post7796920563383566407..comments2023-08-17T11:04:19.748-04:00Comments on submission & metaphor: Breakthroughoatmeal girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-24478107942536313922009-07-06T23:22:39.683-04:002009-07-06T23:22:39.683-04:00I wrote a really long comment and then my internet...I wrote a really long comment and then my internet shut down and I lost it, grr. <br /><br />So, for try #2...<br /><br />I know I lurk too much over here. I never miss a post and I love how you're able to articulate your thoughts and emotions so well! When this post showed up in my reader and I read through it, I was going to jump on over to comment but didn't for some reason. I can't remember why. Skimming through it a second time, I still feel compelled to comment. <br /><br />First of all, I'm really glad that you finally had anal sex. I know you've been waiting for that moment, so I'm really happy for you :) I didn't really enjoy it my first time and I'm still not sure if I have found any pleasure in it yet. So, it's awesome that your first time was a success!<br /><br />As for premature ejaculation ... I truly do not believe that it has to do with you. If it does, it's nothing negative. <br /><br />Now, I'm a bio geek, so excuse me for a minute, but I want to try and support that thought. <br /><br />Nearly all erectile difficulties are psych related. The problem is that what causes the erection and what causes ejaculation are two entirely different nervous systems. So, he may not have had a problem getting an erection, but many things can cause him to ejaculate very quickly. The system that allows him to cum can easily dominate and that is related to his arousal, anxiety, stress, physical stimulation, etc. He was probably concerned about hurting you too much since it was his first time taking you that way, the physical stimulation would have added onto that, and also his arousal could easily throw him over that edge. <br /><br />A lot of it is about mind control. Once both of you are fully comfortable and there is nothing else causing him to cum other than his arousal and desire for you, everything should be fine. <br /><br />As for your ex's ... Any sort of anxiety can cause erectile problems. Even if it is not related to you at all. Don't be so hard on yourself :)<br /><br />Anyway, that's my take on it, so I will stop rambling now, haha. <br /><br />Take care,<br /><br />LaurenL.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14017628236938297277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-23490521525337351742009-06-22T21:13:08.850-04:002009-06-22T21:13:08.850-04:00Your life is complicated, my dear.Your life is complicated, my dear.Lirashttp://juicymetaphor.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-46850972383003518532009-06-22T07:41:24.101-04:002009-06-22T07:41:24.101-04:00Aarrgh, OG, I keep having silly problems posting c...Aarrgh, OG, I keep having silly problems posting comments. Anyway, I wanted to say congratulations, as I know you've been hoping to be taken in this way for a long time. And that it will probably keep get easier for both (all) of you. The first attempt at anything is rarely fireworks, huh?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-73986555670214626532009-06-21T20:55:52.233-04:002009-06-21T20:55:52.233-04:00meg - it's interesting you bring up your forme...meg - it's interesting you bring up your former owners, because I was thinking of you and them when I wrote the part about wishing I had a boyfriend but now being ready to give up the sadist. And you're right - he WILL make it more possible to, with any luck, attract someone of my own. A big part of that is how sexy he has made me feel. The confidence he has given me in the attractiveness of my brain as well as of my body. Not to mention the risks he has prepared me to take.<br /><br />I would hate to have a life without him. <br /><br />dirty blonde - your point is interesting. The Irishman has been trying to get into my ass almost every time he has been here, but I've just been too tight. I can't remember what he said this time, as I held the position bent over the bed which he had ordered me to hold, but it was some sort of request (in domly terms) for confirmation that I was his fucktoy and would give him whatever he wanted. Considering his past attempts and the current proffered state of my butt hole, it was pretty obvious what he was after. But he IS kind and only mildly sadistic, and I appreciated his making sure I knew what was to come.<br /><br />Which brings us to the comment by cutesy pah's Daddy, about how a very tight ass would precipitate a quick orgasm. Actually, my cunt is pretty tight, too - which doesn't account for the guys who just can't get or keep it up but might explain the ex-husbands cumming so fast if they hadn't done any research in ways to hold off orgasm, which I doubt they had.<br /><br />I don't think the Irishman was upset, and I do hope he tries again.oatmeal girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-65245715459512061662009-06-21T13:03:09.253-04:002009-06-21T13:03:09.253-04:00Daddy tells me that it would be easily to cum quic...Daddy tells me that it would be easily to cum quickly with me as I'm so small and tight. from your descriptions, and comments from the sadist, that's likely the issue for you as well. Their inability to stay hard has nothing to do with you. Daddy tells me it's all about mind-control.<br /><br />As for the anal sex, I'm glad that you experienced it, and it was enjoyable for you, even if it ended too soon. I haven't managed that yet with Daddy. I'm hoping the next time we're together.....<br /><br />hugs and much love,<br />cutesypah<br /><br />PS my word verification is "cooking."cutesypahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07954055832006760974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-19529862129774851622009-06-21T02:09:16.253-04:002009-06-21T02:09:16.253-04:00Hurrah about the anal sex! Each time for me feels ...Hurrah about the anal sex! Each time for me feels like the first time because it's often a while between fuckings there -- makes it new and fresh and interesting. <br /><br />Perhaps the Irishman was overwhelmed as anal sex isn't on many women's menus, and perhaps conscious that it was your first time and he didn't want to hurt you in the wrong way.thedirtyblondehttp://thedirtyblonde.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165603762522014470.post-92226488871710378972009-06-21T01:51:58.689-04:002009-06-21T01:51:58.689-04:00wow, you've said so much here. there are so m...wow, you've said so much here. there are so many rich things going in your mind, obviously, and it's hard to know what to say exactly... but that i'm glad that you are getting what you need. your situation with the sadist reminds me of my situation with my former owners, and as you know that relationship gave me a lot of good experiences as well as the ability to eventually grow out of them-- into something a thousand times better. you certainly deserve to have things move in a similarly positive direction. enjoy these moments! :) warm wishes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com